Be humble, Be human!

We all go through hell, some worse than the other. Its not easy to change, nor to let go and to be motivated again. We cry over the ones who leave, forgetting our passions and shattering our dreams. Pain and fear, remain two constants in our lives. Overcoming the fear and getting through this pain is the first step to walking out of the darkness we've been living in. The problem with most of us is, we gotten "comfortable" in our everyday miserable lives. We have forgotten the joy of fighting and pushing ourselves forward, towards our goals. It's time to move on and let go of the things holding us back and this time strive a little harder and not give up. The funny part is, when you look back at what you've survived, it actually makes you stronger than ever before. And like George RR Martin, you have to get rid of a lot characters, no matter how much you love them to make your life better. But the story still has to go on. You either sit on the throne or ...

We spend most of our lives being miserable, letting it revolve around others. We keep wishing that tomorrow would be a better day. We assure ourselves saying that "Everything always happens for a reason". We pretend to be someone to the world, wishing someday "I would get to be myself with that special SOMEONE". We search for songs which would make us feel better, when all we are left with is loneliness. Maybe we are just sentimental fools, falling in love with pretty things and selfish people, stuck in jobs we don't like cause the "PAY is GOOD" (All sarcasm intended). We find resort in darkness, maybe that's why most Bars & Pubs are always dark, it makes people comfortable to sit and sob about ones life. There is never a right move or the right time for anything. No one in this world wants you to be happy than yourself. And No We don't want people advising us about our lives, (or me after reading this post) when they can't figure ...

We've all done things in the past that we regret, mistakes that we wish we had not committed, some accidental, some purposeful, some forgivable & some not. But in life there is no "Pause". May be its too late to change what we've already done, but it's not too late to change Who we are, How we live & What we do. We can make a difference in another person's life, a difference to our society & be the change we want to be and make this life worth it while we're still alive. These changes can be small like being more generous & loving to people, being more dedicated & sincere at what we do, be more forgiving & less hateful to others and at the least trying not to hurt others. These small changes we make can lead to a new way of life. Be happy, spread smiles! Be humble, be human! Happy 2013! 

Certain things we do in life creates changes around us. It may be a little smile which can make someone's day special, it can be those little acts of kindness we show a beggar on the street, it can those little sacrifices we make for our loved ones or may be even the small lies we tell someone just to see them smile. It's these little things which make us a human being and not power or wealth. These things can make a difference in our lives and to the people around us. It's not always about the so called " bigger picture " of life and rather about these " little things we do ".